Intro:
Bit** & complain is all most people do when confronted with an obstacle.
Whether personal or business.
{i.e., Your food is over/under cooked, someone arrived late to an important meeting, your spouse refuses to act in accordance to your pre-conceived notion of ‘life’, or someone just cannot seem to grasp where you are coming from.}
Sure, it may be extremely hard to notice - even to oneself - if such negativity is disguised in the form of a pleasantries. This indeed is the case with the majority of people, the majority of the time.
Im using words, which have already a lot of preconceived notions attached to them, to point beyond what they are saying. - The finger pointing to the moon is not the moon. The dog watching his owners hand wave back and forth doesn’t know to look at the object to which the owner points. No, Im not calling you dogs by any means, this is a pointer. 
None-the-less, it still shares the same root attributes that raw Bit**ing and complaining have.
In saying this, let me go a bit further and see if I can bring up some points that lay hidden deep in a lot of us, but we never visit them as we don’t know they exist. And if they are brought up, then we are on the defense, as the words used typically are associated with the accusative and not from genuine sharing of experience.
I want (the world/business) to change:
“Its unfair”, “It isn’t right”, etc.
Sound familiar? By itself the words are easily identified as whiners which we would say that is not part of our vocabulary. It may not be, but lets take a look at the fruit, or our life and actions to see what they say.
Example:
“Large Corporations tend to scre* over the consumer and have no regards in creating true service with the intent of expanding for the betterment of the end user as well as mankind together.”
What this means will vary to whoever reads it, again its a rough formula of words used to provoke a certain thought pattern to help it align and understand what is being said. (Tricky as each persons grid pattern interprets what they read according to their established milieu.)
Part of getting past this is to interrupt the brains normal pattern (lazy) of processing the information so that it is forced to rethink and contemplate what it read. This to is hard, as most peoples brains fizzle out and the brain deems it ‘boring’.
But here we go.
How to handle the ‘big business’:
Us vs. them never gets anywhere.
The ego is exclusive and not inclusive. I will tell you that is basically the core of how I was/am.
Awareness helps bring you out. For me I would like to do everything myself, wanting ‘control’. (Again a sure sign of ‘ego’. Ego is not bad, but its as if the tool possesses us. I bet the fall in the gArden was Adam & Eve getting the ego tool (knowledge of duality) before they could handle it. The proof is in the mess the world is in. We sinned…that is in greek “missed the mark” or got off course a bit.
Its one thing to watch and observe what is happening and then to take action.
But I would think that for the most part we are not about taking action, we are about complaining hoping that some glorious angel will come down and fix it for us. We expect God to pop from a cloud like a genie and perform our very whim.
We were created in the image of God…time for us to be the co-creators we were made to be.
Outlook:
So you see that a trend is that big business is not focusing on customer satisfactions or user experience. You may feel (and rightfully so) that they want you to adapt the idea you need the product and it is a privilege that you can use the product. - ah, no. Its a privilege that they continue to take advantage of peoples naivety and those people pay them for it.
pssst…Hey I got some swamp land to sell you that you can be grateful for.
Point proven:
The above point proves what Im saying.
With what I said one can say “you have negative words”. Yes, but you have to know the heart, intent and what is driving what is said. Words are limited and mostly associated with the negative or the glorious…nothing to explain the shades of grey that transition from white to black - or for that matter step out of the picture altogether to show another dimension.
As with my comment: “I have swamp land in Florida”. It was meant to make a point.
But it can make a very different point (and be as valid) by saying, “When we find gratefulness in all things, this then is peace. Very true, but again, how are you reading the pointers.
- And people think translation is easy.
Proactivity:
Be grateful for what is.
The fact is that the companies do offer a service.
When they get all the way greedy the ego will self explode and a new ego will take form.
But see what it is they are doing, and how can it be improved upon?
Can you share with them, not in a manner of superiority, what may help the flow of customer service. It could be that they just haven’t thought of it. Put the seed in and see where it goes.
It may drop on the ears where it landed…who knows. It may go to the top and then it will trickle down to the rest. By doing this you are proactive to making the solution, instead of wallowing in not enjoying the only moment you have. Now.
The end of Life:
One day you will lay down and realize the futility in that which you struggled.
But then its to late. You have “lived but not lived” This is hell unto itself. To squander the very life you were given. What are you doing? Do it with all you have or stop doing it.
Rest of the story:
It could be, in the scenario presented here, that it just is not going or fitting into the path that is set out for you. (that is following someone else’s path, or waiting for a business to turn.)
Then turn around and change the ‘injustice’ in the system and make your contribution by going open source. (If that is indeed something you are into.) For another it may be saving the planet.
You may find that places like Green Peace don’t even offer a refuge for you.
When you fight something, you use the same energy, or level of intelligence of that with which you fight. You turn into that which you oppose. So again, no need to mud sling…unless you like getting dirty and realize that no true benefit will come of it.
So can you then go ‘green’ another way?
You don’t like what BMW is doing with the hydrogen car? Think this is not true free energy?
Support that which is closest to you…you can do nothing by yourself. If you can then start your own thing, but you must have people if you want to make a ‘mass consciousness’ change.
Change:
Anyone can have a true and lasting change in their life, where the world does not affect them.
Like one saint who was being burnt cried out “you ready to eat me…I think Im done!”
Oh what gnashing of teeth by those who are runned by the ego constantly and have not harnessed the tool.
If you want to make a bigger change, you have to affect a larger group. Two or more.
“Where two or more are together” - Jesus. He is talking quantum mechanics here…not some flowery poetry. When you have 2-3 together you get a mini mass consciousness.
You control the media, you get what you want. (hehe. well there are those few that are the ’seizures’ in the mind of God. IN that they are showing the potential for a mass change, but the body as a whole only follows its set path leading a ’spiritual fit’.)
Trickle up Technology: {If your crazy}
Crazy like a fox…but it doesn’t mean it will work.
It appears that it truly is trickle down technology.
When the rich adapt something (i.e., BMW hydrogen car, and the ‘knights’/hollywood stars/singers, etc. drive around in it) then the mass want it. Until then, “we don’t need it…gas is good forever, etc.” - oh, about knights, surely most of you know the queen knights those in entertainment (Sean Connery, Bono U2, Rolling Stone dude, etc.) Why? One brit I talked to said Knight means nothing anymore. I beg to differ.
The true knight:
Queen aint crazy. She no longer needs men on shining horsed…she has men/women on the silver screen. They influence and move society…the sheep.
Don’t like being called a sheep? The Bible calls you one left and right and you are one.
You may ask who your shepherd is, all I can say is it aint who you think it is. But thats another post in and of itself.
So it comes from top:
Convince people at top of the agenda, and they will move the boat.
But I tell you, it doesn’t happen over night.
I worked at a company before that took years to get what they wanted, and you would think it was insane what they were doing. But I suppose they knew how to move the type of energy there.
For me it was obvious and a waste of time…but for most, I suppose it takes a series of steps.
(not implying Im special…anyone can think out of the box…but not many are motivated too. This is the difference.)
As people adapt and expand their view, a lot more can happen faster - and interestingly you may see that violence drops. Again, a topic for another post.
But as we note, God uses the good and bad.
There is so much to say in connection with this statement, but to go into the human psychology of it now is beyond the scope of this post.
Conclusion:
With that I wrap it up.
#1 - If you see a problem, does it affect you? How does it affect you? Does it bring you down?
Then you are caught on the same level of intelligence as the problem you want to ‘fight’.
“That which you resist, persist.” - Eckhart Tolle.
#2 - What can you do to proactively make a change in what it is you want to see change in?
Is it a true desire? If it is then you will do something about it. If not, its just ego feeding off the complaint.
Peace
dAlen